Saturday, March 5, 2011

Confessions of a Broken-Heart </3

Confessions of a broken heart </3


Pain is Inevitable, Suffering is Optional~

When the love of your life leaves, you feel like your life has been shattered and that your heart has been shredded into pieces. We have all been there. Whether it was a short relationship or a break up of a long term relationship, the pain is still there.

That ultimate grief you feel when you have lost someone you thought you would be with forever is extremely hard to endure. With every break up, there is someone who is devastated whilst the other just seems to move on like nothing had happened.

Broken hearts are never healed. They haunt us for a lifetime even if we find someone else. Our past teaches us lessons that make us more aware and more human. Why then do we feel so hurt knowing it can only get better?

Breaking up with someone you care about is one of the toughest decisions any of us will ever have to go through. Dealing with the pain and heart break is never easy. We just have to live the days as they are set out and not live in the past.

All of us have had a broken heart. Even if it was a childhood sweetheart who left you for another boy who gave her a lollipop or a ten year marriage ended by adultery.

When you lose a loved one, your feelings are very volatile. You begin to tumble, crash and fall through every minute and every second that he/she is gone. Like living in the shadow of yourself, you begin to fade in and out of life.

This are.... the confessions.... of a broken heart...

This note talks about break ups, cool offs, and the such....
Share ideas or tips to help grieving hearts recover from their past....
To help them forget the bad memories of bad experiences....
To help end the suffering....
To help ease up the pain....

<The Hidden Sides, the Untold Feelings>

"Ang hirap, . . . Ang hirap magmahal ng isang taong panay mali lang ang nakikita sayo....
Na kahit mahal na mahal mo na nga xia, prang d nea un nakikita dahil panay mga kamalian mo lang ang kanyang napapansin....

Ang hirap, . . . Ang hirap magmahal ng isang taong handa kang isacrifice ang lahat para sa kanya....
Na ultimo pamilya't mga kaibigan mo, handa mong kalabanin kung kinakailangan pra lang sa kanya....
Ngunit, ganun din ba xia sayo?

Ang hirap, . . . Ang hirap magmahal ng isang taong ang sarili lang neang mga sacripisyo ang binibigyan ng halaga....
Na sa tuwing nag-aaway kayo, un ang lagi neang isusumbat sayo.... Na magpaparamdam sayong isa kang walang kwentang tao....

Ang hirap, . . . Napaka hirap i-give up ang isang taong minahal mo ng buong puso.... Ung tipong lahat ng pagmamahal sa mundo eeh binigay mo na sa kanya....
Na ultimo pagmamahal pra sa iyong sarili eeh ibinigay mo narin sa kanya't wala ka ng tinira pra sa iba....

Ang hirap, . . . Napaka hirap i-give up ng isang taong alam mong kulang pa ang lifetime mo pra maka-move on sa kanya.... Na kahit makakilala ka pa ng mas cute o mas caring sa kanya, xia at xia parin ang nilalaman ng puso't isipan mo.... Na kahit meron pang ibang dumating, xia at xia parin ang isisigaw ng puso mo't indi bibigyan ng pag-asa ung bagong dumating....

Ang hirap, . . . Napaka hirap i-give up ng isang taong gusto mo ng makasama habang buhay....
Na kahit against pa sa inyo ang buong mundo, wala kayong pakialam dahil enough na ang company neo sa isa't isa pra mabuhay ng masaya....

Ang hirap! Ang hirap tanggapin na indi na kayo! Ang hirap tanggapin na indi na maibabalik pa ang dati neong pagsasamahan! Pero this is it.... I'm drawing the line na eto na, sagad na ako, I've reached my limits.... Maxado na tayong nasaktan.... Kahit indi natin intensiong masaktan ang isa't isa, ganun at ganun parin ang nangyayari.... Malaya ka na.... Sana, mahanap mo ang happiness na indi mo kailan man nakita sa akin.... Paalam mahal ko! Paalam, Mahugs </3"



~ You know what's the hardest, bravest, and saddest thing to do in a relationship? It is to give him/her up for his/her happiness ~

posted by Cirej Ingalla Cunanan via email.

4 comments:

Unknown said...

^_^.. iba ka rin jeric ha? me pinag huhugutan ka yata ^_^

Anonymous said...

This blog story is touch me so much cause, this story is fit for me about my ex, i hope someday i can get over her., it so hard for me to let go of her because all of me i give it to her and just like that she left me for someone she meet out there, i hope guys sino man yung nagmamahal jan, take this to your mind, no forever in this world so hinay-hinay lang sa pagmamahal wag buhos lahat na kahit family and friends mo iiwan mo para sa taong mahal mo,cause alam natin na sa lahat ng panahon pag iniwan tayo nang mahal natin kaibigan at pamilya lang natin ang masasandigan natin.. guys thank you for the wonderful blog that i read.

Anonymous said...

same kau dalawa ng sumulat nyan.. parejo kayung me pinaghuhugutan ^_^ heheheh

Cirej Ingalla Cunanan said...

Thanks for the comment... Hope you liked it. I wish I can make a new blog for those who are relating themselves to the topic/story/idea of the article.

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